Creating Your Business + Life
Happy Wednesday, Tribe! That’s right — I posted this podcast on a Wednesday because last weekend Pat and I were at my brother’s place because our house was up for sale, and I wasn’t able to record as usual. But never fear, I’ve still got a message I want to share with you all this week!
Recently a woman who participated in my Impact to Income Academy messaged me and said she was 100% completely in awe at how much I have completely created the life of my dreams. Of course, I was flattered and grateful to her for the lovely compliment, but it also got me thinking — The truth is, you can totally do what I did. You have the power to create the life you imagine for yourself. You have that ability just as much as I do. I just don’t talk about the “how” of it often enough.
And guys, I promise that has nothing to do with me! I’m not guarding my secrets or anything — I always want to be 100% transparent with my clients and listeners. So today, I’m laying it all out there. I’m going to tell you exactly how to manifest the life of your dreams.
Here’s the truth: It’s simpler than you think. Living the life you’ve always wanted really comes down to two things:
- Believe in yourself.
- Start living as if your dream life is already a reality.
In this episode, I’m breaking down those two steps and giving you all the wisdom I have to offer to get you where you want to be. If you’re ready to start manifesting the abundance your heart desires, read on!
What does your dream life look like? Are you running a successful business? How much money are you making? What about your physical health? What does your ideal body look like? And how about relationships? Are you married? Single? Who are your friends?
Do you have a clear vision in your head? Good! Now, start acting, thinking, and talking as if that life is already a reality. Yes, I mean literally!
I’ll give you an example. Part of my vision for my ideal future is that I’ve wanted to retire my husband. I wanted to make enough money to allow him to leave his job and co-own my business with me. So even when that was a far-off dream, I started talking as if it had already happened. I would say things like, “Oh my God, honey, don’t you love that you work with me, and we have a business together?”Of course, he typically would respond like, “What the hell is wrong with you, you wackadoo?” But guess what? I’ve been able to retire my husband and bring him into my business with me.
When I say things out loud like, “Wow, I love being in business with my husband,” or, “I am such a good business coach,” I’m sending a clear signal to the universe. I’m showing the universe, God, the divine plan, whatever you believe in that I was ready and able to accept the things that were going to happen. More than that — I actually believed those things to be true.
When I do that, I raise my vibration. I elevate my frequency to an energy of success and happiness and abundance. And that allows me to attract those good things into my life.
Here’s another example: I always say that I’m a money magnet. Money just flows to me, and it feels very easy and effortless. Why? Because I believe it’s going to. I believe — I know — that money is coming to me, and it’s going to continue to come. And it does. My financial wealth has grown and continues to grow every day.
It’s all about manifesting things one-on-one. I said out loud that money was coming to me, and money has come to me. I said out loud that I had retired my husband and brought him into my business, and I’ve retired my husband and brought him into my business. It sounds crazy, but it really is that simple.
Go back to your ideal future that I asked you about earlier. Think about something specific you want to do, like, “I want to make $10,000 next month.” or “I want to lose 30 pounds.” Now, changes those sentences into the past tense. “I’m so grateful I made $10,000 this month!” “I feel so good — I lost 30 pounds!” Talk about them as if they’ve already come into reality — and watch as your dream transforms into your real life.
Don’t Wait Until You Have Found Success to Believe That You Are Successful
This process is all about the language that you’re using — both internally and externally. What you say to yourself and others will become your reality, so you want to make sure you’re using language that supports your vision for the future. That’s why it’s important to say things like, “I am so successful!” and, “I’m grateful that I accomplished XYZ.”
The language you use will have a strong impact on your beliefs. If you tell yourself you are successful, capable, worthy, talented, impactful, and abundant, you will be all of those things. But if you tell yourself you are unsuccessful, and you approach business and life from a perspective of lack and scarcity, you are absolutely not going to create the life of your dreams.
Think about it this way: Do you ever hear successful people saying, “Oh my God, this is so hard!” No, of course not! If they were saying negative things like that, they wouldn’t be attracting the success, money, and abundance they have. And you won’t either.
Here’s the bottom line: You have to choose to believe you’re successful. And don’t wait until you have the money, the clients, or the followers to believe it. You have to believe — you have to know — that you are successful, wealthy, and abundant. When you get on that frequency, you will automatically start attracting those things to you. You’ll become a money magnet. You’ll find it very, very easy to find new clients. You’ll lose weight without dragging your tired feet through your workouts. Whatever reality you’re trying to manifest — it will become true.
Let’s Break It Down: The Four-Step Process
Okay, guys, I’m going to sum up my message in a simple four-step process you can start following today:
#1. Get clear as hell on what it is that you want.
Go back to those questions I asked you earlier, and take it even a step further. Say you want to launch a new program. Great! What is the exact start date you want to launch? How many clients will you serve with this new program? Will it be a weekend workshop? A three-month coaching program? Something in between? Get extremely clear on every detail of the things you want to do and the life you want to live.
#2. Believe in it.
You have to absolutely believe and know that your dream life is coming to you. Choose to believe in it so much that there is no doubt in any cell in your body that it is going to be a reality. Trust that your vision is true, and trust that by sending the signal to the universe that you are ready to receive. The abundance you desire is on its way.
#3. Start to act and speak like it’s already happened.
This is the manifestation element I talked about earlier. Go ahead and act like your dream like it’s already a reality. Say it out loud! You can say things like, “I am so glad that I’m consistently having five-figure months,” or, “Wow! I’m so grateful for the new clients I’ve called into my business.” You’ll send that signal to the universe that you are open and prepared to receive those things, and they will start coming to you.
#4. Make sure you have a plan to get there.
Listen, I’ve manifested a lot of money and success beyond my wildest dreams, but I’ve taken massive action behind those manifestations. Once you have clarity and belief and you’re acting, thinking, and talking like your dream reality is coming to you, you have to start taking massive action, too.
So, create a plan. Figure out what steps you need to take to accomplish your specific goals, and then take action. If you need to find a coach or a mentor, find someone! Get yourself into the rooms where those people are, make connections, and start making progress. If you need to up your social media game, start creating new and engaging posts. Don’t be afraid of messy action, but make sure you’re following your plan. Eventually, your actions will lead you to the life you crave.
Are You Ready to Live Your Dream Life?
Are you? Because you truly can start manifesting the life you want to live right now. And it can be so easy — it is literally as simple as believing in yourself and expecting abundance to flow in your direction. And remember that if you lead with impact — if you lead with love and courage and authentic connection — the income is going to come.
Let go of your fear and take the leap. You know what your next step is — take it. Then take the next one. Your abundant life is waiting for you — go get it!
Thank you so much for joining me today, Tribe! I hope this episode inspired you. If it did, please share it on Instagram! While you’re at it, tag me, @thejennkennedy, and share your biggest takeaways from the episode. I love hearing from you guys!
Until next time — Believe in yourself. Live and leap. I’ll catch you later!